My son is 4…actually 4 1/2. He is in theory potty trained, but still has accidents. Not the rare, freak occurance accidents, I’m talking daily. He says it’s because he is too busy and therefore doesn’t want to take the time to go. I know that he has full control of himself, he just doesn’t choose to use it. He is in preschool 4 mornings a week. He knows that if he has an accident at school, he will no longer be able to go (not entirely true, but being potty trained was a stipulation to being accepted). We have tried incentives and rewarding him, praising him, and then gone to the other side and punished him. Nothing seems to work. I do sometimes wonder if it is a deeper issue. In the past 2 years, his father moved, I remarried, and had his sister. He doesn’t act like anything bothers him though. He loves his sister and his stepdad (when he isn’t being punished anyways) and his dad was never around that much for it to make a huge difference. Any ideas to anything else I can try?